To The Woman With Many Lovers

A Message Beyond Shame

Beloved Sister,

This is not a blog post.
This is a mirror.
This is a reckoning.
This is a channeled message from the Self—a love letter from the deepest core of truth. Not the truth the world screams at you, but the one that gently whispers from within. — The truth you already know, but maybe forgot how to hear beneath the noise, the heat, the ache, the rush.

You’ve given yourself away many times.
Not just your body — but your hope. Your sweetness. Your longing.
And somewhere in that giving… you started to feel less.
Not less worthy, maybe — just less.
Less alive. Less certain. Less radiant.

And I’m not here to shame you for your path.
You’ve always been seeking something: love, power, connection, freedom, rebellion, maybe even revenge.
Every partner was a prayer you didn’t know how to speak with words.
So you spoke it with your skin. Your thighs. Your surrender.

But now? Now you feel it.
The weight. The confusion. The energetic fog.
The way your intuition used to sing, and now it stutters.

Let me say something radical.
Sex isn’t casual.
No matter how much they try to sell it to you in songs, tweets, or threads.
Sex is creation. Sex is alchemy.
Sex is initiation into something realer than just pleasure.

Every time you let someone inside you,
You imprint.
You open.
You absorb.

That’s not weakness. That’s your power.

But if you wield your power carelessly, you won’t just lose it — you’ll leak it.
And that’s what’s happening.

You’re not broken.
But you are fragmented.
Pieces of you are still scattered in bedrooms you left behind.
Tangled in the sheets of men who never saw the god in you.

The world told you freedom meant being like a man.
To move like a man.
To detach like a man.
But you’re not a man.
You are a cosmic portal.
You are the place where life begins.
Why wouldn’t sex affect you differently?

Oxytocin is not just a chemical — it’s a spell.
A soul glue.
A sacred design to bond you to what you touch.
And yes, sometimes it bonds you to pain.
To men who don’t deserve your softness.
To choices that cost you clarity.

But this isn’t about punishment. This is about awakening.
Because somewhere deep inside, you already knew this.
Didn’t you?

You felt it when your body wanted to say no, but your loneliness said yes.
You felt it when he left and it felt like he took something.
He did. And you gave it freely.
But now?

Now you get to call your pieces home.
You get to remember that your sex is sacred.
That your yoni is a temple, not a hallway.
That your ability to bond isn’t weakness — it’s wisdom.
And that true freedom is not about how many lovers you can take.

It’s about how deeply you can love yourself
before you ever open again.

So if you’ve had many partners, let me tell you this:

You are not ruined.
You are not unworthy.
You are not trash.
You are just powerful, unguarded, and perhaps misled.

But you can remember.
You can cleanse.
You can reclaim.
You can walk with your head high and your legs closed not from shame — but from knowing.
Knowing that the next time you open,
it will be because you are overflowing, not empty.

Because your love is not for guilty pleasure — it’s for divine purpose.
Your soul is not for rent.
Your body is not a battlefield.

You are a priestess in recovery.
And your throne is waiting.

Come home to it.

You are deeply, endlessly loved… more than you will ever know. ❤️

Jojan Hendriks .💜

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6 responses to “To The Woman With Many Lovers”

  1. “You can walk with your head high and your legs closed not from shame — but from knowing.
    Knowing that the next time you open,
    it will be because you are overflowing, not empty.”

    This is the choice I am living. Thank you for putting it into words so clearly.

  2. Wow!
    This is powerful.
    Due to the relationship page and KT video,I got sidetracked.
    I recognise the imprint and also that you can’t unremember the body of energy you lay with, especially is you knew the person. It’s like flashes of short images in some cases. Yet, that doesn’t mean intercourse is bad. We may be mindful of who we connect with. And I can choose consciously.
    I appreciate the content of the black ladies, yet I am biased in the receiving.
    Once again, a timely blog.

    Thank you Jojan🙏🏾🥰

  3. If a woman meets a man and is just around him, one who has gone through at least three such processes, can this also be a reset button for her holy temple?

  4. Interesting shares androgynous awareness

    Who do we listen to in the video? lol

    Like any type of relations/bonding
    Into-me-IcU inter-courses and body fluids/hormones exchanges influence both partners

    From self love consciousness and individual responsibility this oneness merging is healthy communion

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